I read a handful of newsletters each week. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed when they arrive in my inbox; I question whether I overcommitted by clicking “subscribe.” But then I remember I carefully curated this short list, and in making the time to read them, I’m learning more and more about how to write to you; and how to write about me.
After I read them, I move the ones that really spoke to me to a file marked “Newsletters” in case I want to read them again (likelihood: never). Regardless of their re-read status, I like to think of them as friends, silently cheering me on from their pocket of my inbox; sending good vibes—and words of wisdom—across the ether as I write mine.
And I needed those votes of confidence this week. It was just one of those weeks when I looked at my to-do list, and like any writer (née procrastinator), decided to ignore it and write about it instead.
When you think of a career in freelancing, certain words might spring to mind: Freedom. Uncertainty. Bravery. Ebbs and flows. Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable—which is often used in reference to exercise, but certainly applies to the churn of being a freelancer, too.
And, oh, the sea churned in 2020—and in the first few months of this year, too. (New year, new normal? Not quite.) That is, business slowed down. And then it picked back up, sometimes out of the blue. Like a sudden wave crashing over your tiny craft, you have to simultaneously row to keep the boat afloat while also (literally) bailing yourself out, as you’ve taken on too much water.
When those weeks happen, I rely on my friends who are also navigating the churning seas. I read their newsletters—on writing, burnout, cooking, and the like—to garner the strength to dig a little deeper, share more (be brave), and keep on keeping on. Their words help keep me afloat, amongst the ebbs and flows.
Since you’re here, I’m guessing, you also felt the sea churn over the past year or so. And like me, you find that words help.
So, whether you store my newsletters in a folder, share them with a friend, or click-read-delete (trust me, I get it), know I am cheering you on from across the ether, too.
Supplemental reading: The Multi-Hyphen Method: Work Less, Create More, and Design a Life That Works for You by Emma Gannon
Most freelancers are multi-hyphenates. Me? I’m a writer-relationship manager-business developer-accounts payer and receiver-marketer-founder-CEO. And that’s just for my day job. I’m also a -reader-plant lover-sometimes crocheter-you get the picture. You might be a leader-parent-artist-pet owner-volunteer-mentor-friend.
Our definitions of success are different. In her book, Emma explains how to create a life that enables you to achieve yours.